As discussed above, there are multiple areas that you can focus on when fingering a woman. Staying right on the clit is often pretty painful — to paint a picture, one woman from the study described the sensation as "the feeling of sticking a q-tip way too far into your ear. For starters, their success rate is nil. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. They also ask questions that don't put their partner in a tough spot.
Instead, show her how much you want her to cum.
How to finger someone properly, according to a professional sexpert
For starters, their success rate is nil. AskMen may receive a portion of revenue if you click a link in this article and buy a product or service. Many women love this kind of withholding, and will eventually move their crotch toward your finger or tongue as it passes by — a good sign that the clit is ready to be touched. If you take that end goal off the table, she's actually more likely to get there. To really understand the different patterns and ways of touching that feel best for your partner, you have to try them out.